Care for Self, Understand, Guide, Nurture, Motivate, Develop, and Advocate are the seven categories that the National Extension Parent Education Model focuses on. While these are all great things we need to implement, a few of them touched my heart and stood out on needing to be put in to place immediately.
Care for Self

put everyone’s needs in front of her own? This is the case for most parents. If we look at the parenting pyramid, it goes the opposite way of what we would think. We think that the biggest portion is caring for the needs of our children, however, the biggest portion is personal way of being or taking care of our needs. We cannot care for others if we ourselves are not strong. Taking care of ourselves, whether it is eating healthier, going to the gym, a therapeutic lunch with friends, or just a 20 minute nap can help us be better parents because we will have a better attitude towards ourselves. We will feel stronger and healthier if we take the time to give our bodies and souls what they need.
Understand

Guide

- identify what they did wrong
- state the impact of their behavior
- suggest an alternative
- give a clear punishment
- set an expectation
By doing this, we can help our children understand what they did, how it impacts others, what they should do next time and that you know they can do better. Guiding our children is not easy but we can help them if we keep it clear and simple.
Care for Self, Understand, Guide, Nurture, Motivate, Develop, and Advocate are important parts of the parenting model. While we should work on implementing them one at a time, we need to prioritize what will best help our families and our children.